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The state-of-the-art in what is best for children of divorce. Every parent, judge and family law attorney must view this video to save their children from the ravages of divorce. Click Here to Learn More.


Welfare Reform and Child Support - The Unintended and Drastic Consequences of Welfare Reform and Federal Funding

To find the evil in government
follow the money

 
The source of the funding is Title IV of the Social Security Act.  Title IV-E works essentially the same way. At the Barry County Equal Parenting Symposium a presentation was done explaining that
Federal Funding Obstructs Equal Parenting
. You can view it here:
LaryHolland.Com.
 
More information at:  
 
Good Background Rebuttal to what is appearing by state reps across the county entitled
 
Here is a sample campaign with all the committee members contact information and a sample telephone call that can be made to them:
click here
and it also has talking points.

We are at the tipping point of understanding homogenously what the problems are in the "movement" and I hope that people come to terms with this not being just a "father's rights issue" but rather an "equal rights issue." Otherwise we are going to be locked into a teeter-totter effect of legislation going back and forth in every state. 

Lary Holland

Visit This Website: http://www.laryholland.com
 Blog also DIGG Stories Online

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In the U.S. about 300 fathers commit suicide every month (10 per day) as a result of the effects of the divorce system and the grief from the loss of their children, home, property and future income. Their lives are destroyed by the stroke of a pen from a judge who has no idea what he/she is doing and no constitutional right to do it either!

In Australia it is close to 450 per month, worldwide it is estimated at many times this, likely more than 1,500 per month or 50 men per day. This is more than 11 times the suicide rate of women of divorce! What does this tell you about our system?


The BBC News online 'Day in pictures' section carries the shocking image of a Romanian father who set himself on fire in Bucharest in a desperate bid to get custody of his son who is living in Spain.

 

Boston CustoTEA Party Rocks Boston
December 10, 2006
Hundreds gather and thousands were informed of the injustices being committed daily in Massachusetts "family courts". 
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Fathers For Justice at Stonehenge - Flintstones Demonstration
Families Courts are still living in the stone age.

PARENTAL ALIENATION
View a video on Parental Alienation which has become an epidemic and is damaging children and parents. PA is a sickness in one parent trying to drive the other parent out of the children's lives.

Any Dad 1

Any Dad 2

Any Dad 3 Coming Soon!

News Report on the BROKEN Child Support System

Child Support The Movie coming soon. See preview

 


Fathers want more time with their children and this is now proven by all the most recent scientific research to be better for them too! Mothers should be required to provide equal financial support and given equal time and responsibility unless this is otherwise agreed by the separating parties. 

 

 
 
Our mission is to help unite all parents and groups into a single voice to change the broken, biased and often corrupt family legal system that is destroying children due to ignorance and financial incentives provided by billions of dollars in federal funds.

The "Divorce and Domestic Violence INDUSTRY" is out of control and ruining the lives of millions of parents and children daily.  It has been scientifically proven that when both parents have equal custody rights children do enormously better by twenty six different measures.  Equal rights and custody must be mandated unless there is real proof of harm to a child in front of a jury! 

The divorce system has now evolved into nothing but a cash cow and power machine for lawyer$, judge$ and other government bureaucrats.  This system hurts families and children every day for its own convenience and profit totally ignoring the fundamental rights granted by the U.S. Constitution. It is now an ILLEGAL  kangaroo court more often than not.  These people have lost touch with "We the people . .".
 
Family courts today are not a solution for divorcing parents, but a hindrance to the process and very harmful to children and families.  Unfortunately this is a simple scientific and statistical fact - NOT AN OPINION.  Over 80% of custody awards are for sole custody and this has been proven the absolute WORST arrangement for children - yet it is the easiest and most profitable for lawyers and the states.  Therefore it is a fact that divorce courts today are destroying millions of children's chances of growing up normal. In fact the chance of divorce of a child later in life goes up 93% when raised in a sole-custody home.
 
State family courts operate unconstitutionally, without regard to the highest laws of the land by ignoring supreme court rulings, case law and the many fundamental guarantees of the constitution. Calling then "kangaroo courts" would be too generous as kangaroo courts at least go through the motions to pretend there is justice - family courts often issue judgments without a trial!  They intimidate, drive people into bankruptcy and tell people they "can't win" and they are right because the game is rigged. It is basically a conspiracy to deny parents their rights for the profit of people in this FOR PROFIT system.  Video by Minister Ron Smith.
 
This is by definition tyranny and why the U.S. declared itself independent from England. They are hurting families for the financial gain of states, lawyers, judges and a spiraling government bureaucracy.  Today men are treated like criminals in these courts, and not even believed, so that the judge can do whatever they want.
 
On this site you will find over 1,200-pages of free educational material, legal templates, advice and resources from fathers and mothers who have fought to retain their parental rights against this sexually bias, corrupt and unfair system which is driven mainly by money. We are not lawyers and can not, and do not, offer legal advice.
 

Washington DC Rally For Family Rights To Get Governement Out of Our Homes - August 18th 2007 - 10,000 or More to Attend
We are individuals, organizations and churches united nationwide. We represent varied cultures, religions and ethnicities. We meet in Washington DC, to peacefully exercise our first amendment right to assemble and to respectfully petition our government for a redress of grievances. Our grievances relate to governmental interference with and, the destruction of, our nation's family structure. DCRally 2007 will take place at the historic site of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington DC.

DCRally 2007 commemorates the 44th anniversary of the Civil Rights Movement. DC Rally 2007 is the extension of the Civil Rights Movement. DCRally 2007 addresses the state’s failure to recognize and protect our Fundamental Rights. It’s time for our Federal Congress to recognize and protect our Fundamental Rights.

Click Here for More Information on this event


Family Court$ Have Become a SCAM for Lawyer$ to plunder the estates of divorcing couples using children as bait and damaging them for life!

In 2004 85% of MA voters voted for Shared custody! Why isn't it law? FOLLOW THE MONEY! The Judiciary Committee, which has so far STOPPED Shared Parenting legislation and the will of the PEOPLE, is loaded with lawyers who make money on custody battles! Can you say "Conflict of interest"? Can you say "CORRUPTION"?


The pain inflicted unnecessarily by "family" courts is indescribable. Over 300 fathers commit suicide every month in the U.S. alone, and over 1,500 worldwide, as a result of the vicious and unethical treatment doled out by family "courts". Families are driven into bankruptcy, foreclosure and mental breakdowns by these these kangaroo courts with incompetent and overloaded judges and greed lawyer$ who consider it their job to "destroy the other side".   Of course the victims are mainly the children, who most often lose one parent for the benefit of the other. This is MADNESS and against U.S. Supreme court law. So how and why does it exist? Follow the MONEY!

Parents are destroyed by the kidnapping of their children, demand to pay ransom (child "support"), financial rape by lawyers and the state to generate federal kickbacks that build staff and government. Massachusetts alone receives over $550 million in federal funding each year to support and build the divorce industry so it can destroy families further. They throw parents in jail for not obeying impossible and illogical orders. These courts are operating unconstitutionally, unethically and solely for the profit of lawyers and the state. They must be either reformed or completely abolished.

The year 2007 will be a sea change as everyone in Massachusetts will become aware of the corruption and government driven holocaust perpetrated on families and children. Fathers-4-Justice is here and will build each month until reform is implemented. See more at: F4j.US

See video of Boston CustoTEA Party Protest on 12/10/06
For more videos and information on Fathers For Justice CLICK HERE

Massachusetts Gets Over $550 MILLION Per Year in Federal Kickbacks for awarding SOLE-CUSTODY! This is a CRIME against CHILDREN, parents and society and is destroying lives daily. The research is in. Shared Custody is superior for children but not profitable for lawyers and the state!


Our mission is reform the broken, unfair and corrupt family legal system. The divorce system has become nothing but a cash cow and power machine for lawyers, judges and other government bureaucrats that hurts families and children.
These people have lost touch with "We the people . ." and their purpose.

Family courts today are not a solution for divorcing parents, but a hindrance to the process and very harmful to children and families.  State family courts operate unconstitutionally, without regard to the highest laws of the land by ignoring supreme court rulings, case law and the many fundamental guarantees of the constitution. They are hurting families for the financial gain of states, lawyers, judges and a spiraling government bureaucracy. 
Today men are treated like criminals in these courts, and not even believed, so that the judge can do whatever they want. On this site you will find over 1,200 pages of free educational material, legal templates, advice and resources from fathers and mothers who have fought to retain their parental rights against this sexually bias, corrupt and unfair system which is driven by money. We are not lawyers and can not, and do not, legally offer legal advice.

A nine minute video on the persecution and pain fathers suffer in divorce due to the corrupt court system

 
Our Kids Are Everything To Us!

Shared parenting would take the money motivation out of the divorce BUSINESS that is making lawyers rich at a huge cost to divorcing families and children.  It would take the HUGE profits out of custody battles for mothers, judges, states and lawyers. Husband and wife are intentionally pitted against each other with HUGE financial and custody motivation. The only fair solution is equal rights and equal responsibilities unless a parent is PROVEN unfit, or harmful to a child in some way in a court of law by a JURY.

86% of Massachusetts voters voted for Shared Parenting in a non-binding referendum.  0% of legislators have done anything about it!
Change is Coming!  Justice is Coming!


Click for new report on the damage Violence Against Women Act is causing to families

The Family Courts are Broken, Corrupt and Completely Unconstitutional! 
They are all about the MONEY, POWER and EGOS, not our children!
"Best Interest of the children" is a lie, it is all about "best interest of the lawyers" and the easiest solution for judges driven by decades of sexual prejudice and MONEY.


This web site is full of the proof of these statements from many sources. It might sound unbelievable, as it was to me before I was abused, ravaged and railroaded by this system, but judges are breaking the law every day in nearly every case in some way. There is no real accountability or real oversight.
Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely!  There is no better example than today's family court judges.

Family courts still live in the past with enormous sexual bias. They use this bias as an excuse to generate huge revenue for lawyers by awarding 87% custody to mothers and about 13% to fathers most of the time. They generate as much animosity as possible between mom and dad to drive legal fees to 5-10X what they should be.  This generates hundreds of millions of dollars in kickbacks from the federal government to support the judicial system.  Then loving fathers have to spend a fortune to fight to get these rights back that should never have been taken away. They bury you in ILLEGAL orders and appeals process.



OUR MISSION

1) Shared Parenting Legislation REQUIRING EQUAL RIGHTS for both parents in divorce, unless a jury trial decides this would be harmful to the children

2)
Change in restraining order laws that abuse men far more often than they protect women by taking away their children, home and income when ever a woman says the word "fear". Today all men are guilty of domestic violence until proven innocent due to a decade long propaganda campaign by radical women's groups. Government figures say domestic violence exists in only 0.5% of all homes but it is claimed in a large percentage of divorces for unfair advantage.

3)
Family Law Reform including full accountability for judges who break the law and their oath of office every day by being prejudice against (mainly) fathers. The U.S. Supreme court says that parental rights can NOT be limited without "clear and convincing evidence" that a parent is UNFIT.

The family law system is clearly sexist, unfair and unconstitutional, but lawyers, judges and states see a $250 Billion per year power and money train and continue obsolete traditions. In a world where women have equal earning power and should have equal responsibilities too alimony is basically obsolete except in extreme circumstances.

See Your Constitutional Rights
to Be a Parent
 2

For the complete
U.S. Constitution Click Here

Sample Memorandum of Law
for Custody Battles


Save a fortune in legal fees by representing yourself and making arguments your lawyer will refuse to make because they do not want to upset this massive money driven conspiracy and the judges.

Today men in divorce are forced away from their children, under penalty of jail, and forced to continue what they have done for their wives during the marriage - pay "child support",. This is really "child extortion" because it is ransom for kidnapped children who we want to support directly in our homes.  It is "child extortion" also because it is based on your income, not the actually cost of raising a child. It can often be 4 to 5 times the actual cost of raising a child!  It is therefore nothing but alimony hidden in these ordered amounts.
The ex-wife most often gets the children 85% of the time and is required to do nothing for the husband after the divorce. These standards are applied only to men, like "imputed" income (non-existent income invented by judges to drive up child support numbers). Why because states get  federal kickbacks for higher child support! 
Additionally this creates a HUGE financial incentive for the wife to say bad things about the husband, alienate the children from dad and covet them to protect this undeserved financial income source. Why? Because the federal government offers UNCONSTITUTIONAL INCENTIVE payments to states of BILLIONS of dollars for INCREASING child support each year - creating a huge conflict of interest for judges and other state and judicial bureaucrats.

Today there are 60,000 government employees are tracking parents of divorce. This is 13 times more than drug enforcement agents!
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Fathers show their love and support by earning money and this is immediately used against us in divorce court as the reason to take away our children and to order unfair child support payments. These are often 5 to 10 times the actual cost of raising a child and drive many men to suicide, exile, bankruptcy and also trap them in jail permanently for an inability to pay.

"It is sad comment that the public is so uneducated, unconcerned and blinded to the TRUTH by the media, and that the Judiciary of our once great Nation has been allowed to sink to these depths. And while I say that the conditions that exist today can be laid at one doorstep, that of the Judiciary, I must ultimately say that the fault really lies at our feet, We the People, for it is We the People who have allowed the foxes to guard the henhouse."

Robert H. Bork, Judge,
Supreme Court Nominee &
Professor of Law

 

 
 
 
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