he feminist pendulum has swung so far that woman can abort or have a baby, without any input from the father, due to the inconvenient nine months of pregnancy, or they have the option to drop the baby off at the fire station "no questions asked". Yet in either case the father is committed to eighteen to twenty-three years of effective slavery through massive child support payments because of that decision. This is a crazy set of "one way rights" and another symptom of how convoluted the law has become.

Shared parenting is coming, the grass roots movement is forming now worldwide. It is clearly in the best interests of our children and families, and the RIGHT thing to do.