To: FATHERS-L@HOME.EASE.LSOFT.COM
Sent: Tue, 13 Sep 2005 13:35:10
-0400
Subject: Improved analysis presented
yesterday in Worcester
September
13th 2006
Dear
Judge DiGangi and Carey,
I think
we all appreciated your patience
and time yesterday for the federally
required review of CS standards.
I have attached and pasted below
a corrected and improved version
of the handout I gave you.
The
mother's taxable equivalent income
was not shown as high enough due
to an error in the calculation
formula.
The
reasons to reduce the child support
guidelines are very clear. We
are harming children and destroying
the lives of their fathers too
with this system.
To
summarize the best reasons I heard
the guidelines are too high because:
1.
Massachusetts is the highest in
the U.S. as a percentage
of income that already takes into
account living costs due to higher
salaries. Are 49 states wrong
and Massachusetts right?
2.
Three different benefits accrue
to the mother only that are hidden
and need to be included in any
analysis as follows:
a) Father pays all taxes (after
tax dollars are worth 50% more
than pre-tax dollars)
b) Disregard of $20,000 creates
incentive NOT to work
c) Mother gets head of household
tax status, when father is forced
to earn far more money
I do
not believe the people who created
this guidelines understood this
huge hidden impact, or looked
at the father's position at all.
3.
We are encouraging mothers not
to work and fathers to work under
the table.
4.
We are not giving children enough
time with their fathers for proper
development and growth. Working
mothers would facilitate more
time with dad.
5.
We are creating a welfare system,
and showing children, how to live
off the labor of someone else,
not be independent and contribute
to society
The
result of the current system is
that the standard of living of
a mother is 81% higher than the
father when the father earns double,
and 41% higher when the father
earns triple. This might make
some sense when children are of
pre-school age and the mother
must stay home, but it make no
sense at all after that timeframe
is up.
This
system manufactures "deadbeat
dads", drives father out
of the state and country and even
to suicide (9.9 times that of
mothers after divorce). The fact
is this system is harmful to children
as a result. Dad lives in a dump
and is unable to spend quality
time with the children to balance
out the female side of childrearing.
We
need to take the money motivation
out of divorce. This polarizes
parents and hurts children.
We
need to have more time for fathers
and shared parenting responsibilities,
allowing the mother to earn more
and set a good example for their
children, not a "welfare"
example.
We
need to allow fathers to survive
financially and save for retirement
too.
Lawyers
are the only ones who gain from
the current system and this is
at a huge cost to children.
It
is an impossible and ridiculous
goal to think that the standard
of living of a family will not
go down after divorce. Especially
when mothers are encouraged NOT
to work. This fundamental flaw
in the expectation of this system
is a root problem.
I understand
that the legal services people
only work with poor women, but
child support is not a solution
to poverty and high percentages
for all do not help here. This
just forces fathers away, underground
and into under the table cash
jobs, exacerbating the problem
further and harming to children
even more.
I encourage
you to rethink this entire system.
It is clear that the people that
originally implemented it did
not understand the repercussions
on fathers and children that are
now clear. Child support guidelines
MUST be change downward in
steps that phase out the disincentives
that encourage capable mothers
not to work and live off the indentured
servitude of an ex-husband.
Fathers
are banding together everywhere
now to fight this system. Next
year you will see many efforts
to implement shared parenting,
eliminate the abuse of restraining
orders as an offensive weapon
in divorce, a court watchers system
and other initiatives. These are
not symptoms of a successful system
but a symptom of an oppressed
class of people. Non-custodial
parents are not treated just as
second class citizens, but are
often treated as criminals when
they can not afford to live at
a minimal level and pay the amounts
ordered.
I trust
more time and thought will go
into this process this time than
four years ago. The results are
very clear when a close look is
taken. The judicial system is
encouraging divorce and making
it a very desirable avenue for
mothers. This is ripping the fabric
of society apart and will hurt
generations of children. The family
courts need major reforms.
Sincerely, Robert A concerned father
whose children have been kidnapped
by the state