You must fight
for your rights or you have none.
If you allow them to steamroll you
without resistance, you can only blame
On the other hand being resistant
can often force the other to back
My Ex sent me my son's report card
after she spent (my estimate) $15,000
fighting me on it. I only got one
report card. Then I filed an appeal
and it cost her another $10,000 or
so to deny me. Now of course the law
is being revoked as it was bad law.
Not due to my efforts in fighting
it, but due to other federal government
money. Again it shows that MONEY talks.
There is a reason my EX's attorney
dislikes me. When ever I file
a lawsuit, I put his name right next
to hers in the Defendant's column.
That removes profit for him. Then
he hires a lawyer to defend himself
and my EX has to hire another lawyer
due to conflict of interest.
If these leeches on society and divorced
dads are held accountable for their
bad acts, they will rethink their
position and perhaps their job. For
example if had a PARENTING coordinator
give me bad and unlawful advice resulting
in great difficulties and child visitation
harm for me, I would sue his ass off.
Even if I did not win legally, he
would be getting a message, tread
carefully as you are responsible for
If all fathers hold interveners responsible
for their bad acts, I have no doubt
there will be major changes in the
system by necessity.
A lawyer can not represent a client
and be a defendant himself in the
same lawsuit. It violates the code
of ethics. I don't know which ethic,
but you can not do it.