The National
Fathers' Resource Center and
Fathers for Equal Rights is
adamant in its belief that
Domestic Violence cannot be
tolerated. The NFRC and FER
also demands that the society
acknowledge that Domestic
Violence is an equal problem
for both genders.
FACT:
50% or more of domestic violence
(spouse or "significant
other" assaults) are
perpetrated by women.
This is confirmed by hundreds
of valid studies, the authors
of which are sometimes threatened
with discontinuation of funding
for being politically incorrect
(this means saying what powerful
people don't want to hear).
Part of the poison that the
women's groups spew is the
blatantly false allegation
that 95% of DV is perpetrated
by men against women. The
women's groups have promoted
this lie for so long now,
many people, including men,
actually believe it. Even
the Office of Violence Against
Women
has shown 34% of DV is against
men.
Nevertheless,
the radical feminist groups
have been working overtime
for many years to promote
the libelous propaganda that
men are violent towards women
and children and can't be
trusted. If a lie is
repeated often enough, people
start believing it. And in
fact, most of the policy makers
in American society have bought
into the lie. One result is
millions of dollars of our
tax money funneled to domestic
violence shelters (read: women's
shelters) and other related
programs. Another result of
this pernicious libel is seen
in domestic violence laws
that presume that men are
the primary aggressors. We
all know that if mom calls
911, dad will be arrested.
If dad calls 911, dad will
be arrested. Fathers, grandfathers,
husbands, boyfriends, are
all portrayed by shelter spokespersons
as being untrustworthy (unless
of course they need to be
sent to war.)
The National Fathers' Resource
Center and Fathers for Equal
Rights demands that society
acknowledge that false claims
of Domestic Violence is used
to gain unfair advantage in
custody and divorce cases.
Fathers'
organizations now estimate
that up to 80% of domestic
violence allegations against
men are false allegations.
Since society offers women
so many perks for claiming
that they are victims of DV
(we call these perks "warm
milk and cookies"), false
or staged DV allegations now
appear to be even more frequent
in family court cases than
false sex abuse allegations.
And they are much easier to
fabricate. Mom can simply
scratch her arm with her fingernail
and claim that dad did it
to her! Many men plead "no
contest" to these allegations,
often because they cannot
afford good legal representation.
What father, who has been
kicked out of his house, estranged
from his children, paying
exorbitant child support and
spousal support, and may lose
his job if convicted of domestic
violence, can afford good
legal representation, both
in family court and in criminal
court? So, he rolls over and
pleads "no contest,"
which of course is the kiss
of death in his custody case.
It may also keep him from
owning a gun, including a
rifle or shotgun for hunting
purposes, and in many cases
it has resulted in good police
officers losing their jobs
(because they can't carry
a gun) or even soldiers being
dismissed from the military,
because they too are often
prohibited from using firearms.
The
domestic violence industry
was hijacked by the feminists
around 30 years ago, however
perhaps the most damaging
process took place some 15
years ago, namely the "fusing"
of the domestic violence industry
with the divorce industry.
Simply stated, women know,
and are often advised by their
attorneys, that if they want
to get
custody of the children, they
had better try to nail dad
with some sort of domestic
violence accusation. In many
states, that alone will nail
the coffin. Dad will be labeled
a perpetrator, will lose custody
of his children, will be placed
under supervised visitation
with his children, will often
pay mom's attorney fees and
court costs, will be ordered
to pay alimony, will be forced
to pay for and attend "anger
management" or "batterers"
classes often lasting 36 weeks,
and will be required by the
court to send financial contributions
to the local women's shelter.
(This reminds one of the Nazi
practices of forcing Jews
to purchase tickets for their
own "train rides"
to death camps.) Keep in mind,
the domestic violence allegation
against dad does not have
to be true, it only has to
sound plausible for it to
stick, and we see the devastating
success of the poisonous propaganda.
Goebbels couldn't have orchestrated
it better.
Texas Fathers for Equal Rights
is adamant in its belief that
child abuse in general cannot
be tolerated; and child sexual
abuse, in particular, is among
the most heinous of deeds.
Sexual abusers of children
must be exposed for their
criminal acts. The guilty
must be punished, and children
must be protected from their
aggressors.
FACT:
According to nationwide CPS
statistics, the largest percentage
of child abuse/neglect is
perpetrated by the mother,
acting alone. Remember
Andrea Yates, Susan Smith,
Darlie Routier? Fathers are
far less likely to be child
abuse/neglect perpetrators.
In other words, children are
safer from child abuse/neglect
with their fathers than with
their mothers.
A college study asked male
and female students if they
had a sexual experience before
age 15 with a person 5 or
more years older. The results
were that 59% of the students
were molested by a female.
Of male college students surveyed,
43 - 60% report being sexually
victimized by females.
The National Fathers' Resource
Center and Fathers for Equal
Rights demands that state
and federal laws that severely
punish those who make false
claims of Domestic Violence.
The guilty must be punished-that
is those who commit the act
and those who falsely accuse
spouses to gain advantage
in divorce.
The National Fathers' Resource
Center and Fathers for Equal
Rights wants to share information
and remove stereo types connected
with Domestic Violence.
Knowledge is power. And that
is the purpose this section
on domestic violence. Learn
how the domestic violence
industry thinks and works.
Learn how they deceive the
lawmakers and the public,
and study the techniques they
use. Learn about their collaborators
in the police departments,
the prosecutors' offices,
the federally funded legal
services programs, and in
the courtrooms. Follow the
money trail, and discover
who is enriched by the mass
demonization and criminalization
of men and fathers. Prevention
is best, but if you are facing
a false domestic violence
accusation, we want you to
have the knowledge and
tools to fight it most effectively
and to protect the right of
your children to have a positive,
healthy, and meaningful relationship
with you, their nurturing
and protective father.
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