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DSS Snatches Son from Dad –
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March 2, 2006 |
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Dear
Bob, |
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A
father we will call
“Jeff” was living
in his parents’
home in Connecticut
with his 18-month
old son. (The Massachusetts
mother was the subject
of neglect charges,
and there was no
disagreement between
her and Jeff.)
At this point, an
anonymous Massachusetts
DSS employee telephoned
the father in Connecticut
and fraudulently
stated there was
an urgent need for
him to bring the
child to the grandmother’s
house in Massachusetts.
When he did so,
two Massachusetts
DSS employees and
five police officers
took the child into
DSS custody, only
against the mother.
DSS apparently employed
this ruse to get
around the difficulty
of snatching an
out-of-state child.
The complexities
of the case dragged
onto the present
time. The father
took the appropriate
steps to establish
his paternity, but
the DSS and DOR
so fouled up the
process that it
did not become legal
until 2003. In the
mean time, the DSS
decided on its own
to terminate the
father’s parental
rights and put the
child into foster
care, pending adoption.
Here’s what the
DSS found wrong
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He
did not send
his son any
cards, gifts,
pictures, or
letters while
the boy was
in DSS custody.
This requirement
shows how mother-centric
the DSS is.
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He
only visited
the child sporadically
while the boy
was with DSS.
The only problem
is, the father
had tried to
visit the child,
but was obstructed
by the DSS because
he was not yet
the legal father.
Then, DSS social
workers cancelled
numerous visits
and did not
call the father
to reschedule.
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The
father lived
in a house with
too many people.
Including the
boy, there were
six or seven
related people
in a three-bedroom
apartment. If
that is judged
so crowded as
to be unfit
for a child,
95% of the parents
of colonial
America were
unfit.
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This
father was persistent
and lucky. He was
able to find legal
representation,
and he persisted
with this case to
the Massachusetts
appellate court,
which found in his
favor. The battle
is not over. The
appellate court
decision returns
the child to the
care of DSS for
further determinations
as to his fate.
Attorneys who frequently
oppose the DSS tell
us that they often
require drug screenings
for people with
no history of drug
abuse, domestic
violence evaluation
and treatment for
those with no history
of domestic violence,
and compliance with
elaborate, expensive
and time-consuming
parenting courses,
etc. For poor people,
the requirements
are usually just
too high. DSS sets
these people up
for failure, then
takes their kids.
Eventually, Fathers
& Families will
have to take up
the battle against
the abuses of DSS.
To read a copy of
the decision, click
here: |
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Ned
Holstein, M.D., M.S.,
Chair, Board of Directors
Fathers & Families
phone: (617) 542-9300
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