As an experienced
these issues are all obvious to
me now after over a year of watching
a learning about the family law
system. I have spent decades setting
up strategies, compensation plans,
management systems and organizational
development systems for companies
that will motivate people, develop
them further and align the goals
of the organization with the individual
to drive success. All of these
things are sorely missing from the
government run family law monopoly
and most government organizations,
though the military does a much
better job here because their lives
are on the line, not the "customer's".
This system is out of control!
can see how many people would not
"get" this as it comes
from my personal experience, but
let's break this down into the many
components that have allowed this
system to veer off course for decades.
This is NOT a conspiracy anymore
than Darwin's theory of evolution
is a conspiracy among the animals.
It is simply the natural reaction
that people have, with all their
flaws and personal self-interests,
when dropped into a system with
this set of motivations and pressures.
have seen laws broken every time
I go to court without fail. Judges
and lawyers break the laws for their
own personal convenience or agenda
every single day in most cases.
They take shortcuts to save judges
time at a huge cost to the party
who gets the wrong decision because
all the evidence is not presented
etc. They feel no responsibility
to the constitution (in theory our
highest law) or even the Supreme
Court rulings that often clearly
say what they are doing is illegal.
The SJC has found that ANY LAW that
takes away rights granted by the
constitution is unlawful and can
not be enforced by any state!
Yet we have MANY laws that fly in
the face of the constitution and
no one in government cares.
*I recently heard a feminist say
during a radio interview: "I
heard on the radio just the other
day that 37% of emergency room visits
are due to domestic violence."
Obvious this violates common sense
for anyone who has actually been
in an emergency room. Maybe she
heard "37% of emergency room
visits are the result of things
that happen at home" and then
decided this must be due to DV.
Or maybe she just made it up like
NOW obviously must have for their
membership figures (10X actual claimed)?
Maybe the person speaking was like
her and did not understand the difference
between facts and what someone "says".
Ned Holstein, of Fathers and Families,
was also on the radio program as
the other point-of-view and later
tracked that figure down as actually
0.3%, but the damage was done for
that audience. One good lie can
cause a lot of damage.
have heard it said by an attorney
that these district court judges
brag about how they "overturn
the appellate courts every day".
Even making this statement is admitting
they are breaking their oath of
office which requires them to apply
the highest laws, not their person
social engineering agenda.
is clear to anyone who knows the
law that judges and lawyers take
advantage of people not knowing
these laws for their own personal
benefit and agenda. This is like
a doctor using the quickest treatment
instead of the best because it makes
them more profit. I suspect
this does not happen much in the
medical profession because doctors
have good ethics and a clear responsibility
to the patient only. They
know how they must decide.
are FORCED to pay GALs fees when
EVERY lawyer should know the state
needs to pay for this if the client
merely objects. If they do not tell
their client this then this is a
clear ethical violation, putting
the judge above the client. However,
lots of lawyers make $200 per hour
being GALs and they are on both
sides of that mistakes - their buddies
and them get to participate in that
boondoggle. Some claim they
"don't all know this".
I believe this is silly and is like
claiming a painter with 10 years
experience does not know he can't
paint in the rain because no one
told them this. THIS IS THEIR JOB
AND A SIMPLE THING TO LEARN FROM
ANYONE. Clearly they do not want
to "offend" the judge
and system and they cave in, forcing
more (illegal) fees on their client.
This is not acceptable when they
are paid to work for the client
and MUST do what is in their best
interests (in theory).
Men need to start standing up for
Take action or you have no one to
blame but yourself. T
hey are dividing and conquering
us daily. Fathers Unite!!