Mike Defeduis was a retired, stay at
home dad. His wife works in a senior
position in the Lexington school
system and makes a six figure
income. Immediately upon filing of
divorce, due to the usual abuse of
false accusations that leverage the
ridiculous (guilt till proven
innocent) domestic violence laws
when none has occurred the family
court terminated virtually all his
parental rights. A common story as
women get vindictive and also look
for maximum leverage and money in
divorce. Mike, though he is 62
and has health problems was ordered
by the court into the forced work
program to pay more child support.
Any women with the same story and
long term marriage would have gotten
the house, children, child support
and alimony - but Mike is a man. The
judge told Mike "It is time to stop
leaching off your wife" - to a woman
he would have said "you deserve to
receive alimony, get the house
because obviously you are a loving
mother who has given up your career
to stay home and take care of your
children.
Mike was sent to jail
for contempt three different times
for as long as 120 days because he
did not get a job and/or turn in
enough job applications weekly. A
man goes to jail for being a "stay
at home dad" and a women get
supported for the rest of her life
for the same behavior. This is a
violation of the equal right
required by the Fourteenth Amendment
of the U.S. Constitution.
Due process was constantly denied
Mike as hearings. In Cambridge the
judge pull any attorney from the
hallway to get around the U.S.
Supreme Court ruling that anyone
subject to a jail sentence have
legal representation. This is a
farce and the attorney does nothing
- it is a violation of both the
letter and spirit of representation
when this lawyer does not know the
case, is intimidated into going
along with the judge's desire to
incarcerate the person and sometime
says practically nothing. Jail
sentence issued!
MIKE'S NOTE FRO JAIL October
15th 2006:
Everybody wants me out of this
marriage; and I do too. One issue is
in the way; my children. I am being
egotistic too say my children need
me?! I am being narcissistic to
believe the courts and my wife have
no right to take my children from
me?! I am being to purist to expect
that the courts should uphold my
right to be a parent?! I am being
too political to want to have the
loving relationship with my children
that I once had!! I raised my
boys. I was there for them when my
wife would have them in daycare!!!
I nurtured them and enabled then to
be what they are!!! And my wife has
used that to her benefit to keep
them from me. I maintained that
they be concerned about obeying
their parents. I, instilled in them
the respect for their parents. I
taught them to follow directions
from their parents and teachers and
elders.
Their mother intimidates me and
my children and she uses the courts
to do this. I was the parent that
kept and insisted my boys be active
in Boy Scouts and be true to their
commitments and follow through with
their responsibilities. I taught my
boys to have allegiance to
themselves as individuals, brothers
and sons, teammates and students. I
instilled in my boys all that wasn't
present in my life as a child. I
took everything that was wrong with
my childhood and purposefully
enabled my children to be what I
wasn't. What I didn't have my boys
got. More so than Sean. I totally
invested myself into my guys. They
learned to be competitive,
imaginative over come the childhood
fears by being secure for them. My
children suffer fear and anxiety for
themselves by fearing, "What Mom
will do to dad next."
The family courts are
tyrannical, treasonous, and
criminal. They have taken a
perfectly good pair of boys and
turned them into paranoid psychos.
They repress all their emotions and
feelings because they want to
protect their mother because they
believe she is their only comfort in
life. Their mother aligns me to
them, undermines everything a father
could be for them. Unteach them
this fear or let them mature
prematurely and they will run from
her. She is teaching them to be
cowards, fearful of the next step
forward. She has isolated them from
the real world and she will
intimidate them from the truth. She
says to them, "What is happening to
you and your father is your father's
fault." What more fear can you
instill in a child about a parent
than a parent who perpetuates hell
on himself and his children. Tell
them the truth that she uses the
courts to incarcerate me, separate
me, keep my influence and
determination of truth from them.
The fear is not being
incarcerated, the fear is how will
my children develop, what effect
will her lies have on the rest of
their lives.
Yes, I want away from this
demon, yes; I want out of this hell,
yes; I want this monkey off my
back. I don't want to loose my
children, and that will happen with
the decision to be rendered from
these courts. Their agenda is
predetermined and all about MONEY.
Money for lawyers, money fro the
state from federal child support
kickbacks, money for psychologists,
GALs, visitation centers and any
other phony government invented
reason to charge divorcing parents
and plunder their estates at their
most vulnerable time. Not one
finding of facts have been issued
from all the decisions rendered by
these judges. They are transparent
and villainous in their intent to
uphold the treason they maintain.
Their clear intent is to impose
their malicious intentions on my
family; my boys and me.
MORE TO
COME SOON.
